Your fingers hover over the keyboard. Your pulse quickens, you feel a little flip deep in your belly. You have been fantasizing about it, imagining it, even planning it. But now, it’s time to send an email and… What do you say? Not to worry (too much). Here, I have created a booking guide. Follow My instructions, and you shall receive what you desire.
To make it truly easy for you, you can even click below and apply to serve me by filling out a step by step booking form. However, if you are going to send an email, make sure that you include your name, age, where you are located, what you would like to do during your session, your level of experience with each of these activities, and information about how you intend to verify. See below for more information about verification.
What do you say?
Privacy and Security
At its core, the relationship between Mistress and submissive is about the exchange of power. And so, with this very first contact, we begin the exchange. To protect my security, I require you to screen. To protect your privacy, I take the following measures;
Once screening is complete, your information is securely deleted.
I will never share your information. I ask that for provider references, you contact me first to give me your consent. I welcome clients using me as a provider reference. I prefer for us all to be getting paid. You will never get any why aren’t you booking with me nonsense.
A secure VPN is used for all of my online interactions.
Emails are sent from an encrypted Proton Mail account. I suggest you make one too.
Secure calling and texting available on Signal and Telegram
Communication occurs only at scheduled or agreed upon times.
Booking forms are submitted using SSL encryption.
Let the games begin!
Methods of Verification
1. PHOTO ID
Make sure that the image you send is of good quality. All of the information and your photo must be legible. Your ID number and home address may be censored but your full name and DOB must be visible.
2. REFERENCE
Your reference information must be of a verifiable provider. After obtaining their permission, you will send their contact information and a link to their website or ad.
3 VIDEO CONFERENCE
This option includes 10 minute video call in which you will answer my questions about yourself, your level of experience, and your interests for the session. You must show your face in the video call. This option incurs an additional fee of 50$, which is then applied towards your deposit.
4. LINKED IN
Must have 300 connections and a profile photo. Must also send a matching selfie.
Verification is an important part of the process anytime you are booking a session with a dominatrix, or any other kind of sex worker. This is standard practice in the industry. Now, I know that it feels scary to give your personal information to someone you do not know. However, the threat to you is absolutely no more real than the dangers we face doing our jobs. Simply put, you are not worth My security. I can assure you that I have no interest in exposing you or sharing your information. That would be terrible for My business. What I will do is send the information through an online search to make sure you have no bad history attached to your name. If you are truly uncomfortable sending an ID, I have generously provided you with three other options. If you choose the video call, your payment for the call will go towards the total amount of your deposit (see below). If you choose the social date, you will pay for it separately. Everyone must choose one, no exceptions.
You want me to do WHAT?
Deposit and Cancellation Policy
You must understand, for every serious client, there are dozens of men who message Dominatrixes with absolutely no intention of booking an appointment. They are only fantasizing about the idea of booking a session, and in the process, they are wasting our time and energy. Do not make Me believe you are one of them. I require a deposit of 20% to hold your appointment. Deposits may be made via Cashapp, Wishtender or Amazon Gift Card, or given in person in cash during a social date. This is non- negotiable.
I have a 24- hour cancellation policy UNLESS TOURING, in which case I have a 48-hour cancellation policy. If you cancel within the appropriate amount of time, you will receive a full refund of your deposit. If I need to cancel for any reason, you will receive a full refund of your deposit.
How to Make The Right Impression
DO…
… Address me as Mistress, Master, or Goddess
…Make a well written and respectful inquiry that includes all the information listed under the What Do I Say? Section of this page.
…Lead with tribute to gain My attention and favor.
…Book your appointment as far in advance as possible,
…Give Me plenty of detail about your fantasy, in your booking form.
…Send your verification information in your first email.
…Communicate any specific anxieties or concerns before your session.
…Arrive on time to your session.
…Arrive having cleaned yourself thoroughly. If you have booked a session that includes anal play, please also ensure that you have adequately cleaned your hole. If you do not know how to do so already, you may find a guide to doing so HERE.
…Feel free to book several sessions at once, or book longer sessions with Me.
… Tip fabulously.
How to Make the Wrong Impression;
DO NOT…
… Ask me to perform any of the acts listed under the “HARD LIMITS” section of the MENU page.
… Ask me for half hour or QV sessions unless you are booking the 30 minute foot fetish only special. I have a one hour minimum and I do not negotiate on my pricing.
…Expect to communicate with me extensively before or after your session by text, email, or any other means for free.
… Ask for a same day session. I do not provide same day service, and the best experiences are those I am given ample time to prepare.
… Contact me to book a session, and then claim you are unwilling or unable to provide a deposit. You are not special, and I do not need you to book with Me. If you don’t want to pay a deposit, then don’t expect to receive an email back.
…Arrive at our session unwashed or under the influence of drugs or alcohol. I will turn you away, and your deposit will not be refunded.